Zainab Khanam
They’re not selfish—they’re necessary for your mental well-being and relationships.
Is it work, family, friends, or personal time? Pinpoint where you feel drained.
You don’t have to over-explain. Just say: ➝ “I can’t take this on right now.” ➝ “I need some time for myself.”
Stop saying “I’m sorry, but…” Instead, say: ➝ “I appreciate the invite, but I can’t make it.”
If someone keeps crossing your boundary, enforce it. It’s about respecting yourself first.
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Not everyone will like your boundaries—and that’s okay. People who respect you will understand.
Feeling guilty? It’s just a sign you’re breaking old patterns, not doing something bad.
Boundaries help you avoid burnout and focus on what truly matters in your life.